Romantic Relationships (Why many people want to be in them)
The average person fails to recognize and resolve their own childhood issues. Due to this, many people often desire to be in romantic relationships because of 1 or more of their own unresolved childhood issues. Being in a romantic relationship makes people feel as if they filled a void within themselves. However, if they haven't done any personal development work to resolve their internal issues, being in a romantic relationship is only a temporary solution.
Many people often think that getting into a romantic relationship will cure all of their own inner issues. With the information that I have acquired regarding relationships, this is highly the wrong way to go. If you ask some people why they want to be in a relationship with another person, many times you won’t get a well thought out, thought provoking, mature response from them. Often times than not it will be a simple response as “I like having someone to talk to” or “I want someone to spend time with”.
Examples of unresolved childhood issues:
An individual missing either parent figure within their early childhood and fails to do any personal development work to develop themselves into a mature adult, will most likely have 1 or more unresolved childhood issues. Until this void is filled, the individual will continue to look for a replacement for whichever missing parent figure to fill their void for them. Accepting just about any type of male or female just to fill the void. This is the same for both males and females.
This isn’t the only issue that occurs in ones life. There are many others and this is just 1 example. If these unresolved childhood issues aren’t focused on by an individual and then resolved, they will most likely POP up as psychological errors within their relationships at some point or another and consistently sabotage their relationships. These errors cause more arguments, jealousy, envy, and overall negative energy that is extremely destructive for their relationships.
In Summary
Doing personal development work before entering a new romantic relationship is highly essential. This is where most people fail. Most people after separating from a previous relationship, the most development they will do is work on their physical self like go purchase new clothing and/or workout and get into improved physical shape. Not many people actually make time to reflect on their past so that they can resolve their own inner issues before they move forward into another relationship.
It is very vital that a person makes the time to spend silent alone time to do lots of self reflection, self analysis and self development to recognize what can and should be changed about themselves that will benefit themselves and their relationships. Once people start focusing and developing themselves, then many things in their life will change greatly and positively in various ways.
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