Boys In The Appearance Of Men
I myself have done lots of studying, observing, analyzing and communicating with both genders male and female that has granted me a great amount of insights regarding both. In this article I will provide some of my insights regarding immature men. Men can utilize this information themselves for their own personal development.
Psychologically Young
Everyone is overall young at one point in their life. What’s most important is that a person focuses on developing themselves so that they can mature and be on an adult level physically, psychologically and emotionally. Many people had their own children prematurely before they themselves have matured psychologically. This prevents parents from being able to pass on any adequate amount of psychological maturity to their children.
Regarding the many men who failed to do personal development work, these types of men remain psychologically young children, immature and undeveloped. They are effortlessly susceptible to being manipulated (if you know what to do and say to them), they consistently whine and cry whenever they don’t get their way, seek out women primarily for the appearance of their physical body and very little to nothing beyond that, and much more.
Indicators Of A Psychologically Young And Immature Male
There are an array of factors to consider regarding being able to spot out a psychologically immature and undeveloped male, however, I will list the major factors here. You have to go observe and identify the rest for yourself.
-His Speech
This is one of the very 1st things that a person is able to identify regarding anyone in general. Both mature and immature males have certain speech patterns, vocabulary and tones of voice that they use whenever they communicate with other people. A male who is mature and psychologically developed, usually is articulate enough to express himself as he wants and needs to anyone at anytime. Whenever you hear a male try to speak and he is consistently at a lose of words, then he isn’t on a psychologically developed level. Note: there are some situations where some males had an accident that caused them brain damage and their speech isn’t normal as it should be.
The guys who consistently say “nah mean?”, or “you know what I’m sayin?” without them actually saying much or anything at all within a conversation, this is a huge red flag of being psychologically undeveloped. Overall, if he can’t put words and sentences together well, smoothly and consistently, then this is one factor that you need to consider.
His Appearance
There are many men who dress in various ways for various reasons. What matters most is that a person recognizes that mature and immature males have different mindsets regarding their overall appearance. The mature males know the importance of looking presentable showing respect for themselves in public and also to be respected by others. The immature ones fail to recognize this importance, so, many times they walk out the house not giving much thought to their appearance.
-Sagging Pants: This is what the immature males like to do consistently. Due to psychological programming that many males see on TV, Youtube, at school and various other places within modern day society, they tend to feel that this is the “in” thing to do and that it some how provides them some sort of credibility if they do this. What it actually does is gets the general public to discredit the males who do it and it signals to other people that this is a immature male that they are viewing.
Mature males know that sagging their pants is a very immature and disrespectful thing to do for themselves and other people. The sagging of pants discredits a male rather than provide them a high respectable credibility from the general public. Especially considering if they want to attract a mature, intelligent and beautiful woman for themselves to date.
-Lack Of Compassion: This is a behavior that many immature males convey consistently. Many of them consistently fail to perceive various people in various situations that can be helped. Whenever they do perceive these type of people, regardless if the males can actually help or not, many of them will either make jokes of the situation or completely ignore a person in need and all together. Overall, what’s most important is his overall care for other people. Pay very close attention to the male to see how much compassion he displays for other people.
Whenever a male reaches a high level of maturity, he then is capable of recognizing his own ego and it’s ways and does what he feels is necessary to manage it well and avoid allowing it to control him. Where most men fail is that they allow their own ego to control them and then that disrupts their relationships that they are in.
-Cheating on his woman: Now this is what MANY women have experienced at least once or more in their life regarding men. Many women can relate to this.
Cheating is something that often occurs in relationships and is increasing at an alarming rate these days. Regarding men, with my own study and examination of relationships, I have recognized that a large portion of the cheating is done by the immature men much more than women in general.
The mature men recognize the importance of avoiding cheating and they appreciate the 1 woman whom they have chosen to be romantically involved with. For the immature men, cheating isn’t that difficult to do, it’s easy to fail victim to it for them. Very few males are actually psychologically developed enough to fully resist cheating on a spouse.
In summary
It is essential that a male does his own personal development work that further allows him to develop his own mind into psychological maturity. Psychological maturity is most important for anyone to obtain 1st and foremost before moving forward with anything major in life. Once a person reaches psychological maturity, that is when they will be better able to avoid the most common pitfalls of life that many people fall into.
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